I once had a butterfly who was more than 1/2 my age. It wasn't fun, as she had issues which had scarred her for life & she met me online as a furtherance of punishing herself. We then went out for 6 turbulent years. Still love her, but it's nigh impossible to fix broken. Parting was not acrimonious, but became thus when she found a new man who poisoned the well in terms of me. Dreadfully sad...